Matthew's Journal

Re when you're sleeping with atreic - I'd guess that because you feel relaxed and happy when she's there, you don't find it hard to go to sleep. OTOH, because you're still a new married couple, actually spending the night in a bed with another person means you don't sleep as well, even though you get the hours.

I read recently that sleeping with a spouse makes husbands sleep better, and wives worse! But you aren't used to it yet, and not doing same every night will not help you get accustomed. I think at elast aprt of your problem at present is that you haven't got the same routine every night.